Category Archives: Monday Morning Wake Up Call

Magic

Your clients, customers, boss, better (or worse) half, everybody including Calvin believes in magic. It’s time you did too. #MondayMorningWakeUpCall

Magical World

“You can see it if you look for it”

“My delivery needs to reach before 6:47am.” (I live in Leh)

“This presentation has to get done in the next 2 hours.” (There are 77 slides)

“Sandy, our house help isn’t coming today. Can you be a sweetheart and do the cooking and cleaning please? And ya, take Mel to her dance class. I want to watch the Ind-Pak match.”

Everybody believes you can magically do the impossible. Look back at your life and you’ll see they aren’t wrong. How you arranged for money for your higher studies, lived alone in a foreign land, created a company from nothing that’s now putting a smile on million faces, beat that disease or simply win her heart.

So the sooner you learn the magic words ‘I can do it’, the faster you’ll see magical things happening – building a self-dependant, self-sufficient city for the poor, buying a house over-looking Marine drive, being the next Tolkien or travelling the world with your family.

Yes, it is a magical world!

I wish I had met Mark Twain

“A man who doesn’t read has no advantage over a man who can’t read” – Mark Twain #MondayMorningWakeUpCall

As obvious as this seems, I don’t think this is so obvious.

And reading the newspaper doesn’t count here. If anything I believe if newspapers were banned it would make the world a better place.

Does it really matter? I mean reading? Does it help in any way once we leave the ‘learning’ era of our school and college days? I don’t think I can get away by making sweeping aphorisms like Mark Twain, but I can speak for myself.

For one, I believe if we live in the delusional world where learning stops on graduation day then we will soon celebrate graduation day as dooms day.

In college I hoped that to be the case. Graduation day meant no longer having to pour through books to make sure I don’t flunk exams. But little did I know that life itself was a mega-exam inundated with pop quizzes every single day. Both professional and personal life bowling googlies.

The funny thing is, even though there have been no score sheets, I, and I suspect many out there, still want to score well. While the benchmark and the parameters of scoring well vary from individual to individual, my simplistic measure is ‘am I stagnating’ professionally or ‘am I any wiser’ on the personal front.

Life experiences make even people living with their eyes wide shut wiser, but we can’t and don’t want to experience all possible permutations and combinations of life. Exposing myself to varied reading (and lots of pop culture) has helped me understand more about life, the universe and everything more than Arthur Dent could do so even by Hitchhiking through the Galaxy. While I’m a far cry from being wise, a claim which only Yoda and the haloed enlightened deserve, it has definitely given me ammunition to fight the demons in my head and the strength to be myself.

Similarly, I can’t over emphasize the confidence reading has instilled in me to stay true to my vision professionally. In fact sometimes I even wonder how some people get through an entire lifetime with learning only ‘on the job’. It is quite possible that they would be naturally quite insightful, a talent I’m probably lucky not to have, but I think I would’ve gotten along with Mark Twain better than them.

What are working for?

Are we grooming for life or are we brooming for life #MondayMorningWakeUpCall

And God said to Adam “By the sweat of thy brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken”

But did he really say it? (I’ve so far had luck with mostly one sided conversations with the invisible almighty)

Are we really meant to toil day and night and night and day only to swallow what we’re going to excrete the next day? While I’m ‘hyperboling’ here, it doesn’t seem too far from reality where we spend our lives toiling in vain to make the impermanent permanent.

What is worse is that it doesn’t end with self-flagellation. I still see so many parents whiplash (maybe not literally, but you get the idea) their kids with the intent of grooming them to enslave the holy trinity (Money, Power, Fame) when in reality it is they/we who become the slaves with a broom.

So I do think it’s worth taking a step back to ponder why we are working like slaves (if we are) only for joys (which we think are joys) which are ephemeral, if not for us, at least for the innocent ones.

Freedom sans a Constitution

Freedom isn’t free. It comes with a constitution. Maybe a necessary one? #MondayMorningWakeUpCall

We celebrate Republic Day to honour the date on which the Constitution of India came into force completing the country’s transition to becoming an independent republic. But are we truly free?

Free from corruption, prejudice, orthodoxy.

Or worse, at an individual level, free from greed, anger, envy, jealousy, ambition, insecurity, pride, fear, hate and love?

Along with freeing our mind from limits, wouldn’t it be great if weren’t a slave to any emotion bad or good? Wouldn’t it be great if we could just FREE OUR MIND? Period. And then maybe we can aspire to live in a world where an independent republic doesn’t even need a fancy rule book called Constitution. Imagine!

Limits

Limits are only in your mind, not your legs (or anywhere else) #MondayMorningWakeUpCall

Mumbai Marathon

And if Eastern philosophy is to be believed, the mind doesn’t exist, ergo, limits don’t exist. But let’s not go where we mortals have not gone (yet). Just ask your Marathon running friends from yesterday’s Mumbai Marathon and they will vouch for the same, irrespective of age, gender or colour of blood.

So let’s go ahead and FREE OUR MINDS, from fear, doubts, disbelief… and LIMITS!

Gloating

If you gloat you might bloat #MondayMorningWakeUpCall

Gloat, bloat, Monday morning wake up callLike Pinocchio’s nose used to grow longer every time he lied, why isn’t there a character who literally bloats every time he/she gloats? I’m sure there’s a fun story with a life lesson for adults somewhere there.

On second thoughts I kinda wish that instead of a story it happens in reality, even Pinocchio.

 

Fresh start?

Don’t be in a hurry to say goodbye to 2014. Even if the past was not a blast, what we recall can make us 10 feet tall. #MondayMorningWakeUpCall #1

“It’s a New Year, new beginning or fresh start.” How many times have we said that? In fact that’s what I’ve been seeing every day for the last few days on social media.

But why do we need a fresh start or a new beginning. We are our amazing selves simply because of every minute experience – good, bad, ugly, and that’s what sculpts our character. Holding on to memories can apparently even shape our future – http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/06/02/developing-memory-henner_n_5405384.html?ir=India

If you still need some further convincing, maybe had a particularly bad year, go watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. Actually watch it anyway (it’s one of my favourite movies)

 

Am I waking up to reality or is this a dream? Let’s find out this year. Happy 2015!

NewYearMorningWakeUpCall 2015

Gulmarg in December

Reality or a dream?

I don’t think The Matrix was fictional. The Wachowski Brothers have delved deep into eastern philosophy. This is also evident from their last film Cloud Atlas where they explored the concept of reincarnations and karma.

Sorry I digress (movies always have this effect on me). The point of bringing up The Matrix in relation to the #NewYearMorningWakeUpCall is to make what I’m saying just a bit more tangible to you. Yes, the scenery in the picture did seem like I was still dreaming, but my point has a slightly deeper context.

Over the last few years, my quest for finding answers to life, the universe and everything (nope it’s not 42!), has exposed me to the teachings and practices of quite a few dudes who are said to have been enlightened.

And there seems to be an underlying commonality that the world we perceive is only a projection of our mind (maya) as a result of our ego. This ego we can vanquish by ‘realizing’ or ‘knowing’ our true self and thereby realize that there is no God but that one is God. In the process you also attain ‘mukti’ or liberation and hence end suffering by obtaining eternal bliss.

In the absence of a red pill we have no choice but to explore and find out for ourselves, experientially, not conceptually or intellectually. Anyone game to give me some company. I could sure do with a Morpheus, or better still, Trinity?